waiting for forever

No one ever promised they can be with you forever. It's up you how you keep them in your heart when you can't hold them with your hands anymore.

It's hard letting yourself be vulnerable over someone but eventually you will find one person that could make you feel that way. The scary thing about being left is the fact that you'll never have a doppelganger of that person. You may meet someone whose much like him/her, but no two persons are perfectly the same. It's tough that you won't know when that much feeling will hit you again. The feeling of connection that no one would seem to understand and no one could break between you two.
Love stories are not made overnight. You can't just bump with your soul mate anywhere today and live happy ever after tomorrow. It just doesn't work that way. It works in a crazy beautiful and tragic way. Everything works out in the end but it will not always be the way you wished it would be. 

I've learned the simplest and biggest lesson to gain happiness. It's knowing how to keep your hands open. Never lock anything or anyone with you. That's the best way to love something or someone, because it's what and who you keep in your heart that you'll have in your hands forever. So if it keeps making you sad, just let it go. Let it be, let them be.

Here's a must watch scene from How I Met Your Mother that says it all.

You may think that your only option is to swallow your anger or throw it to someone's face, there's a third option. You can just let it go. And only when you do that is when it's really gone and you can move forward. And that's the perfect ending to a perfect love story.




  1. Insightful post :)

    You changed your blog layout too. Ganda!

    Hope you are having a great weekend!

  2. Hi Bez, just saw this new layout of yours now. :) it's nice.
    and... i'm so proud at how you handle these tragic things...
    you're truly a fighter and a real lover. o-ha.. :)


    1. wow bez! thank you! i'm excited to see you really soon!! less than 2 mos to go! ichichika ko sayo kung sino yang sinasabe ko..hahaha weee ^_^

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  4. I'm sorry to hear that but then again, everyone on earth is put into our lives for a reason. So I believe he taught you much and that you had some take-home lessons from this.