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I was invited to be a guest speaker at my Alma Mater's 14th commencement exercise last month. I was a product of their school and I'll be a good role model for their fresh graduates, as per the faculty who were my friends back then! Haha! Can you believe that? I was actually overwhelmed. What should I say to these young people when I myself is still as young at heart like them. I'm just starting out in the real world. These guys are excited to get out and run the world, what advices should I tell them? So I prepared a long speech the night before, and guess what, I wasn't able to read any part of it! I was so freaking nervous standing in front of all these teenagers. There i was, like stunned and speechless. I didn't know how the words just came out of my mouth. For all I know I did make sense. Haha! I just told them how it was for me when I was fresh out of school. How tough it was at first, how I learned slowly and how I survived and got here where I am now. Well I've graduated 4 years ago and I can say I've been into quite lots already. I've tried and I've overcome mean challenges from different kinds of mean people out there. I'm not yet this successful lady in a corporate world like I've imagined I'd be after 4 years. I dont have a car yet. Give me 3 more years and you'll be seeing me drive a Hilux!! I swear! Haha! Still, I can say I'm in a stable job and position right now which is good since many are unemployed and lucky me to not be one of them!
It had been such a great opportunity to share inspirational words to younger generations. I hope they liked me even for a bit. Haha! I was also in-charge for giving out diplomas. Too many hand shakes for few hours!
When I was brainstorming and writing a really long speech, I found graduation speeches from famous personalities:

Maria Shriver"I'm only asking you to stop every so often and turn off your mobile device, put down the Angry Birds and the Words with Friends and take a moment. Stop to look up and look around. Pause and check in with yourself -- and spend a moment there. "
Commencement Address University of Southern California's Annenberg, 2012
Jane Lynch"You can’t make a cloudy day a sunny day, but can embrace it and decide it’s going to be a good day after all." 
Commencement Address at Smith College 2012
Oprah Winfrey
If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. That's the lesson. And that lesson alone will save you, my friends, a lot of grief. Even doubt means don't. This is what I've learned. There are many times when you don't know what to do. When you don't know what to do, get still, get very still, until you do know what to do.
Commencement Address at Spelman College
Neil Gaiman
"And now go, and make interesting mistakes, make amazing mistakes, make glorious and fantastic mistakes. Break rules. Leave the world more interesting for your being here. Make good art. " 
Commencement Address at the University of the Arts in Philadelphia, 2012
 After any activity, our tummies need to be full! We ate at newly opened Seafood Island. Of course I had my biggest fans with me, my mom, brother and dear friend Law. Mga supporters ko! It was like a summer inside. Love the warm ambiance. It's a beach themed resto. Hindi bagay ang aming attire! Plus boodle fight pa! I recommend this place for those who wants to eat good food with tight budget, I swear sulit ang bayad niyo!
 There, happy and satisfied tummies! Have a great week ahead!

I've been very very very busy these past weeks, I promise I'll try to make time to blog by next week. Let me share this article from You,Me & Charlie.

I’ve been raised to think, live and breathe that love knows no boundaries, and that language is not a barrier, but a flimsy veil that only slightly blur our similarities until we fearlessly push it aside. Afterall, we’re just children of the universe with differently twisted tongues.
Then I stumbled across this magnificent little collection of words that made me realize some things are better encompassed in one beautiful word, than explained clumsily in a mess of sentences that never quite manage to justify the feelings they seek to describe.
Ladies, gentlemen, butterflies, and fellow Charlies, here are ten relationship words that aren’t translatable into English!

1. “Mamihlapinatapei” (Yagan, an indigenous language of Tierra del Fuego): The wordless yet meaningful look shared by two people who desire to initiate something, but are both reluctant to start.
Oh yes, this is an exquisite word, compressing a thrilling and scary relationship moment. It’s that delicious, cusp-y moment of imminent seduction. Neither of you has mustered the courage to make a move, yet. Hands haven’t been placed on knees; you’ve not kissed. But you’ve both conveyed enough to know that it will happen soon… very soon.

2. “Yuanfen” (Chinese): A relationship by fate or destiny. This is a complex concept. It draws on principles of predetermination in Chinese culture, which dictate relationships, encounters and affinities, mostly among lovers and friends. In common usage yuanfen means the “binding force” that links two people together in any relationship.
But interestingly, “fate” isn’t the same thing as “destiny.” Even if lovers are fated to find each other they may not end up together. The proverb, “have fate without destiny,” describes couples who meet, but who don’t stay together, for whatever reason. It’s interesting, to distinguish in love between the fated and the destined. Romantic comedies, of course, confound the two.

3. “Cafuné” (Brazilian Portuguese): The act of tenderly running your fingers through someone’s hair.

4. “Retrouvailles” (French): The happiness of meeting again after a long time. This is such a basic concept, and so familiar to the growing ranks of commuter relationships, or to a relationship of lovers, who see each other only periodically for intense bursts of pleasure. It’s surprising we don’t have any equivalent word for this subset of relationship bliss. It’s a handy one for modern life.

5. “Ilunga”(Bantu): A person who is willing to forgive abuse the first time; tolerate it the second time, but never a third time.
Apparently, in 2004, this word won the award as the world’s most difficult to translate. Although at first, it did seem to have a clear phrase equivalent in English: It’s the “three strikes and you’re out” policy. Yet ilunga conveys a subtler concept, because the feelings are different with each “strike.” The word elegantly conveys the progression toward intolerance, and the different shades of emotion that we feel at each stop along the way.

6. “La Douleur Exquise” (French): The heart-wrenching pain of wanting someone you can’t have.
It ressembles “unrequited” love. It’s not quite the same, though. “Unrequited love” describes a relationship state, but not a state of mind. Unrequited love encompasses the lover who isn’t reciprocating, as well as the lover who desires. La douleur exquise gets at the emotional heartache, specifically, of being the one whose love is unreciprocated.

7. “Koi No Yokan” (Japanese): The sense upon first meeting a person that the two of you are going to fall into love.
This is different than “love at first sight,” since it implies that you might have a sense of imminent love, somewhere down the road, without yet feeling it. The term captures the intimation of inevitable love in the future, rather than the instant attraction implied by love at first sight.

8. “Ya’aburnee” (Arabic): “You bury me.” It’s a declaration of one’s hope that they’ll die before another person, because of how difficult it would be to live without them.
The online dictionary that lists this word calls it “morbid and beautiful.” It’s the “How Could I Live Without You?” slickly insincere cliché of dating, polished into a more earnest, poetic term.

9. “Forelsket”: (Danish): The euphoria you experience when you’re first falling in love.
This is a wonderful term for that blissful state, when all your senses are acute for the beloved, the pins and needles thrill of the novelty. There’s a phrase in English for this, but it’s clunky. It’s “New Relationship Energy,” or NRE.

10. “Saudade” (Portuguese): The feeling of longing for someone that you love and is lost, a “vague and constant desire for something that does not and probably cannot exist.”
It’s interesting that saudade accommodates in one word the haunting desire for a lost love, or for an imaginary, impossible, never-to-be-experienced love. Whether the object has been lost or will never exist, it feels the same to the seeker, and leaves her in the same place: She has a desire with no future. Saudade doesn’t distinguish between a ghost, and a fantasy. Nor do our broken hearts, much of the time.

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